The Degree, the job, the marriage and the kids: Can we have it all? We don't need to make others feel or we feel less in where Allah put us because I'm serving him. If Allah puts me in the kitchen preparing meals for dinner that doesn't mean I'm less than when I'm seeing an alpha woman in my office. Could Allah know I am more pleasing to Allah in that kitchen preparing the meal for my children (in the future) and especially I don't like it and my joy is not in cooking. People are different. I'm doing it, that's what he wants me to do. U reward from Allah I'd more at least not less. It's always a priority and always the focus. It's not me or people. But it's for Allah SWT. A lot of women feel guilty. Don't. U are taking care of yourself, replenish yourself, so u can continue the journey. Our bodies and our souls have rights upon us. Worship is going to salah, fast, hajj, etc. Allah loved and pleased with saying external and inte...